But since 2012 is going to be a year of such upheaval in the land of Caitlin and Rob (still waiting for an awesome celebrity-like portmanteau of our names) I thought that creating a few goals, we'll call them, wouldn't be such a horrible idea. And now they'll be in print, meaning that you all will need to keep me in line.
1. This move will not get the best of me. I will not collapse on the floor in heaving, stress-filled sobs (more than once). We will find an apartment or a house and though it may not be perfect, it'll be a place to live.
2. I will not stress about money. We have plenty of funds to get us through moving and rent-paying, and if something goes wrong we can use our credit cards (not ideal, but we have no other debt aside from student loans) or we have family that could help us in a pinch.
3. Once we are in Santa Fe, I will not let myself become a hermit and hide inside watching 30 Rock and MST3k episodes. I will join the Crossfit gym, I will find some groups on meetup.com, I will make friends.
4. I will not take out my frustrations and my loneliness on my husband when he leaves for fire assignments. I know that this is how I've reacted in previous occasions but it's not acceptable.
5. I will not let our communication to waver or stop letting my needs known, even if Rob is gone for weeks at a time and we can't talk at all.
Seems like a simple enough list. What are your goals for 2012? What are you doing for New Year's Eve?
Also, who is super duper excited for the Twilight Zone New Year's Day marathon on SyFy?!
2. I will not stress about money. We have plenty of funds to get us through moving and rent-paying, and if something goes wrong we can use our credit cards (not ideal, but we have no other debt aside from student loans) or we have family that could help us in a pinch.
3. Once we are in Santa Fe, I will not let myself become a hermit and hide inside watching 30 Rock and MST3k episodes. I will join the Crossfit gym, I will find some groups on meetup.com, I will make friends.
4. I will not take out my frustrations and my loneliness on my husband when he leaves for fire assignments. I know that this is how I've reacted in previous occasions but it's not acceptable.
5. I will not let our communication to waver or stop letting my needs known, even if Rob is gone for weeks at a time and we can't talk at all.
Seems like a simple enough list. What are your goals for 2012? What are you doing for New Year's Eve?
Also, who is super duper excited for the Twilight Zone New Year's Day marathon on SyFy?!