tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post7287298118236261575..comments2023-06-04T07:52:50.111-06:00Comments on To Make Love Stay: Love Me, DammitCaitlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12624818442174838361noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-18256043942661013252011-07-22T14:02:54.972-06:002011-07-22T14:02:54.972-06:00atta girl!! what a breakthrough : ) this was amazi...atta girl!! what a breakthrough : ) this was amazing to read; I'll probably keep revisiting it. I just love listening to you.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16932495960253800127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-3104441725486182002011-07-20T20:52:47.711-06:002011-07-20T20:52:47.711-06:00i admire your honesty, sweetheart! let me just say...i admire your honesty, sweetheart! let me just say that you are more than deserving of love. if only you could see in yourself what others see in you, you might just love yourself too much! ;) you are amazing, my dear! it is not by coincidence that that man fell in love with you! the more confidence you have in yourself, the more he will love you (in addition to how crazy he is about you now). You've got it going on girl!! xoxoIvelisse Gotayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02396038546685377662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-54661747070741720882011-07-20T12:10:53.639-06:002011-07-20T12:10:53.639-06:00Oh, I am so with you! After about 6 months of mar...Oh, I am so with you! After about 6 months of marriage and very stressful times- I felt so unworthy! I broke down in tears when ever he would suggest or hint that I should do something for our house. I finally told him I was just waiting for him to leave me!! It was rough, I am still learning how to love me-- but Realizing part of loving him is loving me has helped.<br /><br />I also have bought myself a few new things- and when I did this I repeated over and over again "I am worth something new, I deserve this" <br /><br />Oh what a journey of self marriage can take us on! I am so thankful for my patient, understanding, and loving husband.The Whity Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11666567340363150963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-64417021739233162832011-07-20T08:17:59.137-06:002011-07-20T08:17:59.137-06:00This post spoke right to me! Thanks for being so h...This post spoke right to me! Thanks for being so honest about your feelings, it reminds me I'm not the only lady who feels like this.<br /><br />Your post was a reminder today to love myself! Thank you!<br /><br />xoxo<br />Taylor M.Taylor M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07514533720640381220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-52711261881215135572011-07-20T07:02:45.655-06:002011-07-20T07:02:45.655-06:00This is a beautiful post, and a great reminder to ...This is a beautiful post, and a great reminder to every woman, even if you're single! I struggled with this a lot in previous relationships, and they didn't work out in the end but I know it affected the way our relationship was. Thanks for posting this :)Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12074673520731619399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-4087737143022235272011-07-20T05:43:29.327-06:002011-07-20T05:43:29.327-06:00You sound like me in this post! I'm like that ...You sound like me in this post! I'm like that with my husband too but with him being so patient and loving, I'm getting there...a work in progress. Glad you are making the decision to love yourself. :) And happy birthday to your sister!Room to Thinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09135145682858036400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-79636656552687508042011-07-20T00:29:44.818-06:002011-07-20T00:29:44.818-06:00i used to think that way, and still am guilty of i...i used to think that way, and still am guilty of it sometimes, but realised it was me ruining my relationships by thinking that way. i dont have those feelings when i am with christian, so i know he is perfect for the NOT perfect me! :Ddeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07562741920585092058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-82101949457426606752011-07-19T18:29:21.476-06:002011-07-19T18:29:21.476-06:00I think a girl who said anything different than wh...I think a girl who said anything different than what you wrote would be lying- at least a little bit. It's totally normal to feel insecure, I definitely have my moments. But those things you said about the way Rob looks at you and the things he does for you, my heart melted. You can't deny that he's crazy for you, you guys have been through SO much! I only DREAM of meeting someone like that. You are one lucky lady, but he is a VERY lucky guy too!!! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-72809739844072549912011-07-19T16:42:19.258-06:002011-07-19T16:42:19.258-06:00aw I feel for you. I think we all doubt ourselves,...aw I feel for you. I think we all doubt ourselves, but it is so true, we are worthy of love. Your man seems amazing! I love that you watch twilight zone together. That's one of my favs!Suzzie Vehrshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17759254450737337596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-80353594746565350442011-07-19T16:31:17.586-06:002011-07-19T16:31:17.586-06:00I feel you on this one. I too am learning to love ...I feel you on this one. I too am learning to love myself first. It's a tough nut to crack. Stay strong! I'll be here reading :)Kelseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14219015842267830166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-15094765530417106942011-07-19T16:17:24.594-06:002011-07-19T16:17:24.594-06:00Aw Caitlin I feel those awful, stupid feelings a l...Aw Caitlin I feel those awful, stupid feelings a lot too so I completely understand where you're coming from. I have been working so hard on my self-esteem this past year and it is HARD work. I wish you luck and I hope you'll post about breakthroughs... not only for encouragement but so the rest of us out there like you might get a few pointers too. =]<br />And really, I can't believe you don't think you're beautiful. Your features are so feminine and adorable... and I think you seem pretty dang awesome through your blog. =]Sara Lucinda Bellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17371224761784993570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-74448316960994436272011-07-19T16:03:34.222-06:002011-07-19T16:03:34.222-06:00this was a very touching post. and i think it says...this was a very touching post. and i think it says a lot about you, that you were willing to come out and admit your issues with not always loving yourself. <br /><br />if it makes any difference, i already thought you were gorgeous, funny, smart, and quirky. :)deanna@delirious-rhapsodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11510367852834677697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-30444570733026482272011-07-19T15:56:50.225-06:002011-07-19T15:56:50.225-06:00This post is beautiful. I'm glad you came to ...This post is beautiful. I'm glad you came to such a happy conclusion :)Reccewifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05248121864702720595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824982487100086152.post-9850183077835155942011-07-19T15:20:56.268-06:002011-07-19T15:20:56.268-06:00Good God, I love this post. And i adore you lady. ...Good God, I love this post. And i adore you lady. BEAUTIFUL, just like you. <br /><br />Happy Birthday to your sister too! yay! :]Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01258974930998406195noreply@blogger.com